Androgynous Male Seeks Advice?

I am not sure I understand what you are looking for. Do you want to be more masculine/feminine? Are you not happy with the way that you are? If not, why not? I believe that you should be who you are most comfortable being. If you have some interests in cross-dressing or playing up your androgynous appearance, do so slowly, growing more comfortable each time you express yourself. I am curious about one thing..are guys and girls attracted to you? Are you looking to explore that? You seem to be focused on your appearance and we all are so much more than that. I have long, str8 brown hair and from behind I get mistaken for a girl all the time but I enjoy the casual prep that guys wear. I am not that concerned with my appearance as I am my personality, my relationships. - I like all sorts of things that contradict each other and I explore those. I don't have a certain clique of friends, I have all kinds (with a fondness for the geek in everyone). I like the exploration, getting to know all the different types out there. Maybe you should just try that too. Either way, you sound pretty smart, pretty aware, so I think whatever you choose to do, you will be ok. Just don't lose sight of who you are inside.